A MOTHER'S CRY
I too had Rocky Crabb over my case and I can attest that he really does destroy people's lives including my own and my son's lives. My son's father attempted to kill me, has threatened to harm my family members as well as his own, and was using drugs. He is a complete psychopath and has the attributes of a serial killer. When I took my case to court and was issued Rocky Crabb initially he awarded equal custody to myself and my Ex and that was terrible because each time it was my turn to have my son he would act out and would tell me that his dad told him that I hate him (my son) so just poisoning my son's mind. Then eventually we went back to court and this time Crabb issued full custody to the father all because my ex brought in a pay stub which was fabricated stating that he was making $9,000 a month and at the time I was working a part time job and going to school. He favored him and gave me visiting rights to see my son for only 2 hours on weds and I got to have him every other weekend. Finally on a weekend right before I was to pick up my son his father went crazy and attempted to harm his own mother with a knife in front of my son then proceeded to hand my son the knife to hurt the grandmother because "he's a child and won't get in trouble for it" he also put my son's dog in a bag to suffocate it and killed their pet turtle. It was then that I called child protective services and children's court took over my case and I was awarded full physical custody and he now has monitered visiting rights. My son is now in therapy because of all the trauma he had experienced all because Rocky Crabb gave rights to the wrong parent.
8 years ago when my daughter was only 3 years old, Crabb granted her drug addict dad weekend visitations exposing my daughter to danger. It was years of hell for her and myself. I fought as much as I could until Crabb threatened me, told me I was a liar and said if I went back again to court he would take my Daugther and grant him full custody. He always sided with her dad. Nothing I said was true to him. I had a restraining order on her dad, before our court hearing he was arrested for violating the order. I had a video as proof but it didn't matter. He dropped all charges. Giving him more power to stalk me for years and harass me. My daughter suffered for years. Coming back home from weekend visits sick, throwing up, fevers, etc. from her not eating well. Now she is 11 and refuses to see her dad after everything he's put her through all these years. Innocent children that are too young to speak out for themselves are being exposed to so much danger over Crabb and his poor choices over race or preference. I felt because I was Hispanic and a woman he sided with him.
My life is unrecognizable now because he granted a Restraining Order for my ex on myself for defamation of character. I sent a text on Mother's Day…I was not texting excessively, or daily, but that day I was upset and sent a couple texts to my ex and some friends and family about how Mother's Day was a celebration of mothers and should be spent with mothers. Instead, my son went to his father's fiancé's beach house to celebrate. This prompted him to request a 5yr Restraining Order, which Rocky Crabb granted. The very worst part, my 7yr old son was included because my ex claimed I was planting ill conceived notions in his head when he was with me. There was nothing said about how this could be proven or even what was being said. I now can only see my son for 2hrs on the 1st, 3rd, & 5th Sunday of every month. No threats, no stalking, no constant texting or calling, etc. To make matters worse, because my son was included, I couldn't go within 100 yards of his school. Problem being, I work for the school district he attends. So the district was informed. When I was able to speak, albeit in the short time I was allotted at the end of what was a humiliating and devastating attack pointedly critiquing what he assumed from reading my ex's accusations, I told him I work in the district my son attends and sometimes have to attend meetings there. Crabb looked up from my file and said, "That isn't my problem." Then he slammed it closed and that was it. I ended up quitting the career in the district I went to and loved after 12 years of teaching. He is a bad man. My world crumbled and I decided to give up. Nobody should ever hurt like I do still.
Rocky removed my grandaughter from her mother, 4 years ago, and gave her to her father, whom was a convicted felon, restraining order on him for child abuse and domestic violence, had not been in the child's life for 2 years, and he did not have a job. Removed her from a loving stable home. It's been a nightmare. Rocky does not call for justice. One day he hates mothers and the next he hates fathers. Please remove this unjust man from the bench.
"I was a witness to my friends custody case with her abusive alcoholic ex-husband. My friend who has no criminal background and a church going citizen was treated unfairly. Despite her proving his medical condition, three convicted DUIs and corruption with taxes...I witnessed Crabb dismiss the evidence her and her attorney provided but accepted a picture of her toddler son with gerber baby food on his face and filed the mother as negligent. Further more, he awarded the father 50/50 custody of their children in common including a 1 month old new born and ordered the minimal child support order of 85.00 dollars a month. GET HIM OUT." -J.O., Brea, CA